Nollywood actress, Laide Bakare, has sparked a wave of heated conversations online after boldly revealing that she personally introduced her 17-year-old daughter, Simisola, to clubbing and alcohol. The revelation came during a candid interview with media personality Mr. Lilgaga, where the actress openly discussed her unconventional parenting choices, her daughter’s growth, and her views on love and life.
Laide Bakare explains why she took her daughter to a club at 17
According to Laide Bakare, the ages of 17 and 18 are crucial transitional stages for young people, as they begin to experience real-world situations that shape their understanding of adulthood. She explained that she wanted to be the one to guide her daughter into these experiences rather than leave her to explore them alone or under peer influence.
In her words: “I’m the first person that will bring her to a club. That was her first club experience ever. I love the fact that in her memory, she will always say my very first clubbing and alcoholic drink was from my mum.”
The actress argued that this approach allows her to create trust and openness in her relationship with Simisola. She stressed that it was better for her daughter to be exposed under her watchful eye rather than in a situation where she might lack guidance or support.
Addressing her daughter’s body physique
Laide also took a moment to address the ongoing public attention about Simisola’s body, particularly as she has gained visibility online. She said: “She’s 17 now. That’s just how we are in our family. Even me, I’m 44 and I look the way I do.” The actress highlighted that genetics play a big role in her daughter’s appearance and dismissed unnecessary speculations surrounding her physique.
Celebrating Simisola’s academic success
The revelation about clubbing comes shortly after Laide Bakare proudly celebrated Simisola’s academic achievement. At just 16, Simisola graduated from high school in Canada with an outstanding 4.80 GPA, a feat her mother shared with fans as proof of her daughter’s discipline and brilliance. Laide described her as both intelligent and responsible, further justifying why she felt confident introducing her to nightlife responsibly.
Laide Bakare speaks on love and relationships
Beyond parenting, Laide Bakare also touched on her personal love life, admitting that she is unsure if she will ever fall in love again. The actress revealed that her view of relationships has been shaped by past experiences, financial struggles, and resilience. She bluntly stated: “I doubt if I can fall in love. Money and love together — that combo must be complete. I’ve been broke, I’ve been down, and I came back again.”
Public reactions to her revelation
As expected, her confession has stirred divided opinions online. While some fans praised her openness and her attempt to build honesty with her daughter, others criticized the move as irresponsible, arguing that introducing a teenager to alcohol and clubbing could have long-term negative effects. The video of her comments has continued to trend across social media, sparking debates on modern parenting styles in Nigeria.
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