Reality TV star Neo Akpofure has contributed to the ongoing conversation on social media regarding whether men should kneel when proposing marriage to their partners, a debate that has recently intensified following a series of viral posts and news reports on proposal etiquette.
The Big Brother Naija alum expressed his thoughts in a detailed post on X, formerly known as Twitter, addressing those who perceive the act of kneeling during proposals as unnecessary, outdated, or demeaning. He explained that his perspective is rooted in respect and acknowledgment of his future spouse’s value rather than societal expectations.
Kneeling is not begging
Neo clarified that he would willingly kneel before the woman he intends to marry, emphasizing that she represents his God-given helper and the one who would carry his future generations. He strongly dismissed critics who interpret kneeling as a form of begging or weakness, asserting that personal gestures of love should not be judged by others’ opinions. According to Neo, the focus should be on the sentiment and meaning behind the act rather than public perception.
He further argued that society has created unrealistic standards in relationships today, which often confuse individuals about what constitutes genuine acts of love and respect. Kneeling, he added, is a symbolic gesture of honor, humility, and commitment, demonstrating seriousness in intent and the willingness to respect one’s partner fully.
Neo’s comments emerge amid heated online discussions sparked by a recent proposal incident in which a woman reportedly rejected her partner after he refused to go down on his knees during the proposal. The incident reignited debates on whether traditional gestures like kneeling are relevant in modern relationships, with some people labeling them unnecessary while others see them as a meaningful display of love and humility.
His words …
“I will gladly kneel before the woman I will ask to marry me! If it looks like begging to you, IDC! That’s my helper God gave me, the one who will bring forth my generations to come. Everyone just setting ridiculous standards these days y’all enjoy.”
Neo’s post has since generated thousands of interactions from fans and followers, with many praising his perspective as refreshing and grounded in respect, while others continue debating the relevance of kneeling during proposals in contemporary society.
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