Well-known Nigerian preacher, author, and motivational speaker, Pastor Tolu Odukoya, has finally spoken publicly about the swirling rumours concerning her marriage, confirming that she and her husband are no longer together. The announcement marks the first time she has directly addressed the matter, putting to rest the ongoing speculations that have circulated for weeks among her congregation, followers, and social media community.
The news has drawn considerable attention, as Pastor Tolu, who is admired for her inspirational messages and strong family values, had previously avoided commenting on the topic. Her confirmation has sparked widespread reactions, particularly among her church members who had been eager for clarity regarding her marital status.
Speaking candidly on her official podcast, Truth Table With Toluwani, Pastor Tolu disclosed that her marriage had quietly come to an end some time ago due to reasons beyond her control. She described the experience as deeply painful, likening the end of her marriage to the loss of a loved one. “Most people don’t know that my husband and I have separated due to circumstances beyond my control. You don’t get into a marriage to leave a marriage. When your marriage is over, it is like a death,” she revealed during the emotional conversation.
The preacher went on to reflect on the difficult years she has endured, sharing that her separation coincided with several other heartbreaking losses in her personal life. These included the passing of her father, her stepmother, and her father’s twin sister, all of which occurred between 2021 and 2023. According to her, coping with the collapse of her marriage alongside these personal tragedies had been one of the most challenging experiences of her life.
Despite the separation, Pastor Tolu was gracious in her words about her ex-husband. She described him as a “great man” while stressing that sometimes, even with respect and affection, a marriage cannot continue if it is not divinely ordained. She explained that forcing such unions often leads to greater struggles, emphasizing the importance of God’s guidance in marriage.
Her openness has drawn sympathy from many who commend her for speaking honestly about the struggles of marriage, grief, and personal growth. For her followers, this moment of vulnerability further reinforced her authenticity as both a spiritual leader and a woman navigating real-life challenges.
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