Reality star and social media influencer TolaniBaj has opened up about her growing disinterest in nightlife and her readiness to explore the idea of marriage, signaling a shift in her personal priorities and lifestyle choices.
In a candid discussion with her followers, TolaniBaj admitted that she has been forcing herself to enjoy clubbing despite no longer finding it enjoyable. She shared that the constant exposure to loud music, dancing, and party environments has lost its appeal, leaving her craving more meaningful experiences in life.
She further explained that while clubbing used to bring excitement, she now feels that spending time in such environments is less fulfilling and often leaves her pretending to have fun just to keep up appearances. According to TolaniBaj, she now prioritizes experiences that offer genuine joy, connection, and potential growth, rather than fleeting thrills from nightlife activities.
Curious about marriage
Alongside her disinterest in clubbing, TolaniBaj revealed a curiosity about marriage and a desire to explore what married life might feel like. She jokingly suggested that she would like to “experiment” with being married briefly to determine whether it is something she could truly enjoy and find fulfilling. Her playful approach reflects both her excitement and apprehension about the long-term commitment marriage entails.
TolaniBaj’s reflections on commitment
Despite her curiosity, TolaniBaj acknowledged that marriage requires a significant level of commitment and responsibility. She shared her internal debate, wondering what would happen if she tries married life experimentally and ends up genuinely liking it. Her words reflect both a lighthearted tone and a sincere contemplation of her personal readiness for such a life change.
She expressed herself in a heartfelt statement: “I gotta start being honest with myself. I no longer enjoy clubbing. I keep forcing it, bruh. I keep forcing it. I wanna see if I can experience some kind of excitement. I need excitement in my life. I’m tired of clubbing. I don’t wanna be outside doing what? What am I looking for outside if I have a partner? Like, what the f- be outside to get a shot maybe traveling or something but like I’m done forcing clubbing man. I don’t feel like pretending to be having fun in the club anymore. Like I think it’s time to get married, yeah. I want to see if I can get married for like two days just to see if I like it. That’s a scary commitment y’all, like how am I not sure that after one month I will not start saying yeah.”
Her candid revelation has resonated with fans and followers, who have praised her honesty about evolving personal priorities and her willingness to reflect publicly on major life decisions, such as marriage and lifestyle choices.
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‘I’m tired of clubbing… it’s time for me to get married’ — DJ TolaniBaj declares 💍🎶💃” pic.twitter.com/bauP7nqhXa
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