A lady has recently shared a shocking and emotionally charged message she received from her ex-boyfriend on WhatsApp, leaving many netizens stunned by the raw honesty and bluntness of the revelation.
The chat, which was shared by a TikTok content creator identified as Lifestyle content, revealed the ex-boyfriend’s name as Nwoke Kogi. The post quickly went viral, sparking debates and discussions on social media about honesty, closure, and the complexities of modern relationships.
In the message, Nwoke Kogi made a startling confession, admitting that he never truly loved Amaka, the recipient of the message, as she had believed. Instead, he explained that he had been using her as a ‘placeholder’ while searching for someone he deemed better suited to him. This admission left Amaka visibly hurt but provided the closure she may have needed.
He wrote: “I saw the tantrum you’re pulling online, but let me help you with the closure you need. I never loved you the way you thought I did. You were more like a placeholder until I found someone better.” The words, direct and unapologetic, offered insight into his perspective while simultaneously validating the feelings of those who may have felt similarly betrayed in relationships.
Nwoke Kogi further explained that he had been exhausted by the pretense of their relationship, emphasizing that it was never a priority for him. “Don’t blame me for moving on quickly. I was already gone long before you noticed. You were convenient, not special,” he confessed, revealing the cold reality of his emotional detachment and lack of genuine investment in the relationship.
The viral chat has sparked widespread discussions online, with many social media users expressing sympathy for Amaka while debating the ethics of honesty versus the pain it causes. Some users commended Nwoke Kogi for being upfront, while others criticized the callousness of his actions and the way he communicated them.
See below for screenshots of the chat…
This incident has become a talking point for discussions on social media about the need for clear communication in relationships and the impact of honesty on emotional closure, highlighting the often complicated dynamics of modern dating and love in the digital age.