A Canada-based Nigerian has voiced strong criticism of Nigerians living abroad, describing them as “too loud” and cautioning that their tendency to overshare on social media could lead to unnecessary trouble and misfortune. The woman, whose remarks have gone viral, argued that the behavior reflects poorly on Nigerians internationally and undermines the dignity of the diaspora community.
In the video, she mocked the practice of adopting foreign city-based nicknames shortly after arriving in a new country, such as “Toyin of Toronto” or “Balogun of Luton,” suggesting that it was pretentious and unnecessary. According to her, this kind of self-aggrandisement portrays Nigerians as lacking decorum and maturity, and often draws unwelcome attention.
She contrasted the current generation of Nigerians abroad with those who migrated decades ago, noting that earlier migrants were far more cautious. Many of the pioneers would deactivate their social media accounts and maintain a low profile to avoid attracting undue attention while settling in new countries. In her view, the current trend of constant online exposure is reckless and diminishes the image of Nigerians overseas.
‘Oversharing on social media spoils it for others’
The expert further condemned Nigerians who post detailed accounts of their daily lives online, from airport arrivals to social outings and personal activities. She described such behaviour as careless and potentially dangerous, as it exposes migrants to both local scrutiny and possible criminal exploitation. She emphasized that oversharing not only endangers individuals but also negatively affects the perception of Nigerians as a whole in host countries.
Citing Ghana as an example, she explained that reckless conduct by some Nigerians has led to rising tensions with local residents, with instances where locals have demanded that Nigerians leave their communities. Such incidents, she argued, complicate the lives of law-abiding Nigerians abroad who are trying to integrate peacefully into their host societies.
Online reactions
The video quickly sparked a wave of reactions on social media, with users expressing mixed feelings, humor, and sarcasm. Many responded playfully, while some acknowledged the truth in her critique of the diaspora’s behaviour.
Achilles007: “The gang awon… this is how we buy pepper in Canada, this is how we flush toilet in YouKay, this is how we drive on the road in America. Lol.”
Mufti of Ilorin: “Kinikan of Derby.”
Angel: “I know the big head she is referring to… na only her dey know who and who dey gbenshi.”
JIMCRUZ: “Some of them act like they are cursed.”
Overall, the discussion has ignited debates among Nigerians online about online etiquette, cultural representation, and the responsibilities of migrants abroad, highlighting the need for greater awareness and restraint when sharing personal information on social media platforms.