Lady berates men who abandon their kids as soon as DNA results show they’re not their biological children.
A woman identified on Facebook as Davina Algorithm has taken to her social media platform to share her strong opinions on the subject of men and their reaction to discovering that a child they’ve raised is not biologically theirs.
Davina expressed her thoughts in a detailed post, highlighting the disparity in how women and men respond to situations of this nature. She pointed out that many women continue to care for and love their children, even after finding out that the child doesn’t biologically belong to their husband.
According to Davina, the same understanding and unconditional love are often lacking when the roles are reversed. She observed that men frequently begin to withdraw their affection for the child, which, in her opinion, indicates that their love for the child was conditional and only tied to the belief that they were the biological father.
She elaborated that such behavior raises questions about the authenticity of the love men claim to have for the child. Davina further urged women to engage in meaningful conversations with their partners before marriage, emphasizing the importance of understanding their partner’s capacity for unconditional love.
In her own words, she stated:
“If a woman discovers that the child she gave birth to for her husband does not belong to her husband, she will still love that child regardless.
But as soon as a man DNA that he’s not the biological father of the child his wife gave birth to for him, he starts withdrawing his love.
Which means that he never really loved the child but because he thought the child is his.
That’s why I tell women. Before you say I do, ask him,
‘When we get married, do you promise to love any child that comes out of my womb?’🚶🏽♀️”
Her thought-provoking statement has since sparked a flurry of reactions online, with many debating the points she raised. Check out her post below:
